They dont see a black lady. They see a lady.
They dont see a brown man. They see a man.
They dont see a white grandpa. They see the grandpa.
They dont see a yellow storekeeper. They see a storekeeper.
We were with a friend and her son in McDonald's a few days ago.
The little boy kept on saying he wanted to be served by the black lady. He kept on going back to 'the black lady.'
I have never really noticed it if not for this little incident. Thing is, with my girls, they have never ever pointed out the colors of people whenever they interact with them. They only see them as, yes, people.
I remember one story. We were watching the news on tv and MC was with us. The news featured a little girl who's covered with hair, an abnormality. And what did MC saw? She said that she likes the little girl's dress.